by laura beth

While in Arizona, we were able spend time with Kenny's immediate family at his sister Erica and brother-in-law Shawn's house in Phoenix. Kenny's parents and sister Elisa had come from Scotland for Grandma Lily's funeral. Ken was pretty sick the whole weekend and Evie wasn't feeling good either, so they spent a lot of time in bed, but we still had a nice visit. It was great to watch the Xander and Ava open Christmas presents and just enjoy the company of each other for an evening.

Shawn and Erica have had a really tough year. They were both laid off this year. A few weeks ago, Shawn's new pickup was stolen from in front of their house. Grandma Lily passed away on Monday December 15th. Erica had recently found out that she was pregnant (which she was ecstatic about) but on Wednesday, December 17th she found out that she had miscarried at 17 weeks. So the grieving that weekend was magnified. However, Shawn and Erica are amazing. He is so supportive of her, an they are both wonderful to each other and their children. Erica has found a part-time job at a toy store and she provides daycare, which Shawn helps with. He also has his own business installing high end car audio systems. I am proud of the way they have handled the hardships in their lives this year. Just being there for the weekend it seemed evident that the rough times are strengthening their family. Being there for the weekend really reminded me of the importance of love and grace.